Who's Bad?

I have often wondered why women always think that men are generally bad and that men are dogs and womanisers that chase after anything in skirt. Sometimes I would want to ask who's really bad, men or women when it comes to infidelity.
It would be easy for women to conclude that men are the worst culprit in this case, however I would want to disagree with that notion. Women are so secretive in their dealings that its almost impossible to catch them at their game so they tend to appear the saint to everyone. If we know the amount of women that seek sexual pleasure outside their homes we would be greatly amazed. But you see the women are the masters of their game while the men foolishly flaunt their stupidity.

Let's take the case of Bimbo and Emmanuel as example. They have been married for 6 years and are blessed with 2 kids. Emma was a top management staff in one of these communication company until he lost his job, while Bimbo works in shipping line. When Emma lost his job, Bimbo was there for him and was very supportive while he tried to get back on his feet trying his hands on business. Eventually things picked up for him and he was really doing well in his business, and they became a happy family once again.
However, trouble reared its ugly head one day when a particular number kept on flashing Emma. At a point Bimbo noticed that Emma had to put the phone on silent unknown to him that Bimbo knew that the phone was still ringing because the lights were still blinking. She however kept her cool. At night when they had gone to bed and Emma was fast asleep she got hold of his phone and dial d number on her phone.
The next day she called the number and pretended to be Emma's sister and told the girl at the other end of the line that Emma asked her to give her some money since he was travelling and that the girl should come over to her office to pick up the money. The girl thank her and promised to come over to her office later that day. She was however smart and sent a text message to Emma thanking him for the cash, to which Emma replied her to ask which cash was she talking about?
To cut long story short all hell was let loosed at home that night because Bimbo was so bitter that she threatened to dissolving the marriage. She claimed that after she had done everything to make sure they were comfortable when things were bad with Emma now he wanted to pay her back with sleeping around with women all over the place. Emma on his own, felt very bad and did everything to appease Bimbo, but Bimbo would have none of that as she eventually packed out of the house. It took the intervention of both families to settle the matter and for Bimbo moved back home. Emma on his part begged Bimbo for forgiveness and promised never to stray again.
You can however imagine the shock on Emma's face six months later when he found out their eldest son was not his child. They were always taking the boy to the hospital every other week because he was always sick with malaria. Eventually he was diagnosed with sickle cell disease. Emma was very shocked. He was AA genotype so there was no way any of his kids would be sickle cell patient the highest they could be was a carrier. He mentioned this to the doctor who insisted that the boy was a sickler. He took the boy to two other hospital to confirm this, and that was when he now confronted his wife. Eventually the wife confessed that she had been sleeping with her boss in the office, and that they had been at it for close to 4 years now, but she had ended the affair after she caught Emma cheating on her. She saw how remorseful he was afterwards and she now decided to end the affair knowing she had no justification for her anger when she was guilty of the same thing. She now begging Emma for forgiveness.
Now Emma's problem is even if he forgives his wife how can he live with the fact that he is fathering another man's child. The child would always be a constant reminder of his wife's unfaithfulness. How is he going to live with this for the rest of his life?
Please readers let's hear your views on this. Comments would be appreciated.

TEMPTATIONS

WOW its been close to two years now since the last time I posted here. Hey pipo I am really really sorry. I have been extremely busy I barely have time for myself. However, I promise that going forward now I am going to be consistent once again.

Hmm there are a lot of things to talk about, but we can't take all once. So I going to be bringing it bits by bits.
Today we are going to be talking about couples living apart. Back then, Dad was a policeman and he was always on the move. Today he is Lagos state, next thing he has been transferred to Borno just like that. We don't go with him immediately when the transfer comes, most times because of our school at other times maybe mom does not just feel up to it. However, all that changed when the man had impregnated a girl leading to the birth of my little brother. I can remember the bouhaha this caused in my home. All my dad was saying then, was that MAN CANNOT LIVE ALONE....LOL you can imagine.

These days, we have lotsa couple living apart. In these days of economic hardship, most people wud want to keep their jobs so they hardly complain when they get transferred most especially when it comes with promotion and all other goodies. However, for the men its always a tricky one.
Take this scenario. Young bloke married with kids and working in Lagos, gets transferred to Abuja. Not long after he arrives Abuja he meets this lady in her mid or late thirties possibly 40s and they got friendly. Knowing fully well that he is married (at least she sees the wedding band on his finger) she throws herself on him. Well guy looks at it, Wifey is not around, and guy may sometimes need company. The lady in question is quite comfortable, she drives a good car, got her own house in a choice area,
and got a good business for back up. So its not like she's going to be an extra burden on you. You reason what the heck have you got to lose at least she knows you've got a family and you don't need a second wife.
However you are mis calculating because very soon, she starts getting very much into you. She starts complaining how she can't sleep every weekend you travel to see your family. Then finally one night she drops the big one....she says honey I want you to give me a child. Don't worry I won't bother you with the child I'm going to siglehandly take care of the baby. If you don't even want the baby to ansa your name its okay I don't mind ... All I want is give me a child.
At this point, a lot of guys get confused, but the wise ones always want to back out. I know a lot of women would want to have my head for this post hehehe but hey I'm only been realistic here. This is happening everyday. Some women would want to ask that if it were the other way round how would it look like. As in if it was the woman that got transferred and she meets a man who knowing fully well she's married still goes after her. Well me I nor know for that one Ooo, women can hold themselves more than men but personally I don't think its wise for couples to stay apart, temptations can come in different forms and when it does the end is usually not palatable. Cheers.