Is she satisfied?

I came across this and I think it would be interesting to share.

Sometimes, it can be hard to tell what is going on in your woman's mind. You may be curious to know if she is enjoying her lovemaking with you or if she has experinced orgasm or not. There is no foolproof way of knowing if a woman has had an orgasm, even for the woman herself. The physical qualities of a woman's orgasms, and as a result her perception of them, is likely to change from orgasm to orgasm. There are times when she may not know whether she has actually had an orgasm, versus intense pleasure, which can at times be more enjoyable than an orgasm. If a woman has an orgasm that does not automatically mean she experienced pleasure, or at least intense pleasure. An orgasm can be boring! A woman's orgasm may produce so little physical sensation she may wonder if it was actually an orgasm.
You want to know if you are you getting it right Is she satisfied? Women can be hard to read, especially when it comes to sex. Although you could eventually find out, but sometimes, there is the need to be sure!
This is because her body will show some signs of arousal that she cannot possibly fake, but remember that every woman is different. Below are some of the signs that can give you the desired assurance:
Rapid breathing:Our breath when resting is a very peaceful and there is tranquil movement of air in and out of our lungs. When a woman is turned on, her breath comes in urgent puffs and, probably, some involuntary moans escape with it as the air is forced quickly past her vocal cords. The increase in heart rate when her body prepares for orgasm means her internal organs and muscles are demanding more oxygen. If you can hear her breath, you're on the right track. If you can feel her heart thumping, you're well on your way.
General writhing around and body movement:If your girl is curling her toes and writhing against you, chances are she's probably enjoying herself. Grinding and pushing against you means that she's really getting into the mood. If she's lying there limp, probably you are not getting to her. You could try a change of position, or start all over again; not because of her alone, but for both of you.
Thrusting hips:When she meets your thrusts, you're doing something right. It is pretty safe to say that if she's matching your body movements and is in tune with yours, then she's getting something out of it. Good sex is often synchronized. If she is not meeting your thrusts, then her sexual body language is telling you that she wants something else.
Arms splayed out:If she's holding herself close, she may not be getting you; her arms may be around you, her hands may be on your chest, above your head, wherever, except they're being held in close to her own body. If she's on top, she may need her arms to manoeuver and give herself some leverage to get the best angle. This is certainly not a definitive gesture, but can be useful. Her body should be responding to the situation at hand!
Vaginal muscle movement:The vaginal wall is an incredibly strong muscle, and she will probably use this to some extent for her own pleasure during sex. You may also feel the contracting and relaxing during orgasm her vagina spasms and this will clench you to some degree but not always, so don't use that as a benchmark. Some women do have great control, and those who do are likely to have better sex and orgasms in general. If you don't feel any clenching, don't panic.
You may know already by the feel of her vagina when she's not far away from orgasm she may let you enter further, or the overall sensation may be “just right” for you both. Only you can tell, so pay careful attention to her sexual body language and what's going on inside of her.

SEX DENIAL

Hello all. Happy new year to all of you. Lets hope that this year 2010 would a lot better than 2009. Now alot of things happened in 2009. In all, the one that amused me most was when Kenyan women denied their spouses/bfriends sex for a period, all to promote peace and good governance. LOL. I heard it worked. Well its all good. Bringing myself back home I asked myself would that kind of thing work in Nigeria? Hahaha don't laugh. Let us be serious now, would it work? Okay Let me give the case scenario of what would happen, should Nigerian women decide to deny us the men sex. First thing first, I know a lot of women would not try to attempt it. Understand my English try to attempt, because hmmm, they know their men and they know that those young girls doing aristos would gladingly obliged us whenever we need them. Ha yes ke. They know what they stand to lose if they dont oblige us, those unilag, UI, uniben and all other higher institutions where we find the aristos loving girls who know that when we come around we bring a lot of goodies along. Hahaha.

Should Turai make such an annoucement, those girls would just hisss and say that na for her back pocket because they know that means business would boom for them and you know now. But the naija woman is smart, and she would not want oga to spend that hard core currency on those thieving aristos loving girls so what they would do is this. They would all concur.... that yes these men needs to be taught a lesson and they would agree to go on sex strike for the next couple of weeks, but as soon as they get home. They would make sure that oga is well serviced. When I say well serviced, they would even add extra condiments to it so that he would have his fill. Then they would come out the next day and shout the loudest that all women should make sure they deny thier hubby of sex and all the extras but behind close doors oga is even getting it more than he used to. LOL. Na who be fool?

So you see why I said it wont work in Nigeria? Or what do you think. Post your comments and let me know.

Direct flight

Yesterday I read this story about a girl in one of our universities infecting 124 students and lecturers with HIV. According to the report, the girl claimed she got it from her boyfriend who had been her one and only according to her. And that because she got it from the university she also wants to leave it at the university. That to me is warped, or should I say callous. The girl is only been mean. However, I wont say I blame her. Why on earth would any bobo want to sleep with a girl without using condom. I keep asking myself this question. At this time and age why are guys having casual sex without using condoms. I know a lot of guys out there that do this. Some of them are even married. I was at a bar the other day when this guy was boasting to his friend that he does not use condom. Guy: O boy I go for direct flight (skin to skin)Friend: Haa arent u afraid of AIDS?Guy: O boy leave dat thing, na wetin go kill person go kill person weder na accident o or HIV o all na d same.

Its true death is death and its inevitable but then again we must not invite it upon ourselves. I hate it when people think only of themselves. This guy I am talking about was married cos I saw the wedding band on his finger. And here he was talking about having skin to skin sex with his girls at the expense of his wife. Poor innocent wife. I have this friend who's married also. He keeps complaining that his girlfriend is always getting pregnant for him. What??? I screamed. Dont you use condom? Emm well you know she has been my regular girl for sometime now so I dont think I should be using condom since shes my regular girl. How are you sure she sleeps with only you? I queried. Well I know shes faithful to me. Ha faithful to you... a married man. My freind you better wake up. The truth is that I am not against men that play away games. Men will always be men if u know what I mean.....lol. But we must not forget the fact that we have to fully gage up when we play these away games.Gaging up means fully protecting yourself. Do this not for yourself alone but also for your wife. Theres nothing as bad as getting HIV and passing it unto your wife. If its just you then its okay cause you brought it upon yourself but passing it unto your poor innocent wife is BAD,

Like I said the issue is not about having sex with whoever you want to have sex with, its about protecting yourself.theres nothing like my regular. AIDS nor de show for face. Even for the single guys when dating...make sure you still continue using condom until you you get married, and even before marriage I would advise that you to for the test to know your status. Thers nothing like shes my fiance, not until shes in your house you never can tell my friend. Do not say well we have been together for the past 5 nyears so I trust her. Omo you never can tell...if shes still seeing somebody else girls are smart.

Of the 124 people that the girl claimed to have slept with, 6 used condoms, so the other 118 people are at risk of contacting the decease. AIDS is real guys. so if you must play, please use condom. Na Dog wen nor hear him master whistle naim de lost for inside bush. A word is enough.....
Cheers

Male child palaver

I woke up crampy today !! This is because I had to sleep on the couch. I have been doing this now for the past three weeks. Oh...did I tell you that wifey delivered a bouncing baby boy ! This is our third child. We had 2 adorable girls before now. The thing is that we would have stopped at that, but wifey kept inisiting that she had to give me a boy. Not that I mind, seriously guys a child is a child so I dont know why all the bouhaha about a male child being the ultimate. So what now happens to the female child? Every child is as important as the other. But In our society today we believe that not having a male child does not make one complete. My wife falls into this category. I kept telling her that I dont mind and I am okay with my lovely daughters. The thing is that I have always wanted a female child as my first child so when we had my first child and she was a girl I was filled with joy. And then came the second, a girl again, it was then my wife started:
Wife: Honey lets just try again and see if this one will be a boy.....
Me: baby i thot we agreed that we are having just 2 kid?
Wife: well 2 or 3 whats the difference......lol.

Well this was how we started on the third missonary journey. Before then, wifey had made wide consultations, with her doctor...and she has been well tutored on how to go about it. She even went to the extent of bringing home an old chinese chart (given to her by her colleague at the office) that is used in getting your preferred sex of the child you want by tallying the age of the mother and the month of conception of the baby to give you your preffered sex...hmmmm. Na wah oo all this one for boy....lol.Well so it went, we were using both scientific and ancient techinques.....Now the doctor had told her that, its the male sperm that swims faster than the female but dies quickier. So the thing is that if when a couple copulates on the day of ovulation not before but on the day, theres every possibility that the child would be a boy as it is possible that the male sperm would get there quickier than the female. Anyways, na so we come start am oo. Trust my wife....the month her age tallies with the month for a male child....she will start calling on her day of ovulation....honey where are you.....you ought to be home by now....haba wifey !!! anything the matter? Look you this man if you dont come soon there will be trouble in this house....cos im ovulating right now and I need you to come perform your duties. Na wah ooo. And so it went until well it happened. Somewhere along the line she did a scan on one of the days she went for her ante-natal and the doctor at the hospital asked her if she wanted to know the sex of the child. She was apparently scared and she said NO....Well I had to insist on knowing and it was then the doc told us we had a boy. My madam nor gree believe until the day of delivery.....lol
Anyways we thank God we now have a boy. But I cant help wondering if it were to be a girl what would my wife had done. I asked her one day and then she reminded me of a former governor ( Nor be my mouth una for hear am o) who had four girls and was obviously not satisfied with that. He claimed he loved his wife but then again he needed an heir apparent to his fiefdom so he went an impregnated a girl whp now gave him a boy. According to my wife Mr. Ex Governor really loved Ex madam first lady but because of the need for a male child away match don turn to home game as mama boy is now wife number 2. So you see no need to take chances. So guys what wud you do if you were Mr. Ex guvnor, wud you go out there to get a male child or wud rather take it as it is. Send in your comments and let me know what you think..

Butocks adjustment

I was reading an online newspaper the other day and I saw a caption that a former Miss agentina had died from complication arising from cosmetic surgery in her bid to get a firmer ass. I asked myself why all the stress women undergo to get in shape. In my opinion there would always be a man for all shape and sizes of women. Some like them big...some the slim shady lepacious type. Some like those with big butss and some those with large eye poping areolas. Whatever shape they come we always love them...right guys?

Anyways...while I must confess that men would always love well shaped curveous women. I really dont see the need for you to undergo cosmetic surgery when you feel you not in shape. I have heard that they go to the extent of getting silcone breast these days.. wat da ....... Meeen silcone boobs is no boobs i even heard that its a hard as an unripe orange....lol Whats the use of having a well shaped boobs when me men cannot get the real feel.. Sseriously girls, I dont think its worth the risk. There have been too many incidences of people dying from complication arising from cosmetic surgery. We all know the case of the former first lady of Nigeria Mrs Stella Obabsanjo and now former Miss Argentina Solange Magnano. Like I said before theres always a man who will appreciate you for who you are so its really not worth the risk. Come to think of it. why wud a woman want a firmer ass. Haaabaaa. Not even a firmer boobs...firmer ass. Now I know why Jennifer Lopez had to insure her ass....lol.

Now I really want to know...whos got the best shape of them all celebrity people. Im just curious so fill me in on that.......lol