Sunday, December 27, 2009

Direct flight

Yesterday I read this story about a girl in one of our universities infecting 124 students and lecturers with HIV. According to the report, the girl claimed she got it from her boyfriend who had been her one and only according to her. And that because she got it from the university she also wants to leave it at the university. That to me is warped, or should I say callous. The girl is only been mean. However, I wont say I blame her. Why on earth would any bobo want to sleep with a girl without using condom. I keep asking myself this question. At this time and age why are guys having casual sex without using condoms. I know a lot of guys out there that do this. Some of them are even married. I was at a bar the other day when this guy was boasting to his friend that he does not use condom. Guy: O boy I go for direct flight (skin to skin)Friend: Haa arent u afraid of AIDS?Guy: O boy leave dat thing, na wetin go kill person go kill person weder na accident o or HIV o all na d same.

Its true death is death and its inevitable but then again we must not invite it upon ourselves. I hate it when people think only of themselves. This guy I am talking about was married cos I saw the wedding band on his finger. And here he was talking about having skin to skin sex with his girls at the expense of his wife. Poor innocent wife. I have this friend who's married also. He keeps complaining that his girlfriend is always getting pregnant for him. What??? I screamed. Dont you use condom? Emm well you know she has been my regular girl for sometime now so I dont think I should be using condom since shes my regular girl. How are you sure she sleeps with only you? I queried. Well I know shes faithful to me. Ha faithful to you... a married man. My freind you better wake up. The truth is that I am not against men that play away games. Men will always be men if u know what I mean.....lol. But we must not forget the fact that we have to fully gage up when we play these away games.Gaging up means fully protecting yourself. Do this not for yourself alone but also for your wife. Theres nothing as bad as getting HIV and passing it unto your wife. If its just you then its okay cause you brought it upon yourself but passing it unto your poor innocent wife is BAD,

Like I said the issue is not about having sex with whoever you want to have sex with, its about protecting yourself.theres nothing like my regular. AIDS nor de show for face. Even for the single guys when dating...make sure you still continue using condom until you you get married, and even before marriage I would advise that you to for the test to know your status. Thers nothing like shes my fiance, not until shes in your house you never can tell my friend. Do not say well we have been together for the past 5 nyears so I trust her. Omo you never can tell...if shes still seeing somebody else girls are smart.

Of the 124 people that the girl claimed to have slept with, 6 used condoms, so the other 118 people are at risk of contacting the decease. AIDS is real guys. so if you must play, please use condom. Na Dog wen nor hear him master whistle naim de lost for inside bush. A word is enough.....
Cheers

1 comment:

  1. The truth is that I am not against men that play away games. Men will always be men if u know what I mean.....lol.

    I cannot deny that this viewpoint saddens me. I will pray that God will not make someone with this opinion my future husband, or the husband of any of the women I love and respect.

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