TEMPTATIONS

WOW its been close to two years now since the last time I posted here. Hey pipo I am really really sorry. I have been extremely busy I barely have time for myself. However, I promise that going forward now I am going to be consistent once again.

Hmm there are a lot of things to talk about, but we can't take all once. So I going to be bringing it bits by bits.
Today we are going to be talking about couples living apart. Back then, Dad was a policeman and he was always on the move. Today he is Lagos state, next thing he has been transferred to Borno just like that. We don't go with him immediately when the transfer comes, most times because of our school at other times maybe mom does not just feel up to it. However, all that changed when the man had impregnated a girl leading to the birth of my little brother. I can remember the bouhaha this caused in my home. All my dad was saying then, was that MAN CANNOT LIVE ALONE....LOL you can imagine.

These days, we have lotsa couple living apart. In these days of economic hardship, most people wud want to keep their jobs so they hardly complain when they get transferred most especially when it comes with promotion and all other goodies. However, for the men its always a tricky one.
Take this scenario. Young bloke married with kids and working in Lagos, gets transferred to Abuja. Not long after he arrives Abuja he meets this lady in her mid or late thirties possibly 40s and they got friendly. Knowing fully well that he is married (at least she sees the wedding band on his finger) she throws herself on him. Well guy looks at it, Wifey is not around, and guy may sometimes need company. The lady in question is quite comfortable, she drives a good car, got her own house in a choice area,
and got a good business for back up. So its not like she's going to be an extra burden on you. You reason what the heck have you got to lose at least she knows you've got a family and you don't need a second wife.
However you are mis calculating because very soon, she starts getting very much into you. She starts complaining how she can't sleep every weekend you travel to see your family. Then finally one night she drops the big one....she says honey I want you to give me a child. Don't worry I won't bother you with the child I'm going to siglehandly take care of the baby. If you don't even want the baby to ansa your name its okay I don't mind ... All I want is give me a child.
At this point, a lot of guys get confused, but the wise ones always want to back out. I know a lot of women would want to have my head for this post hehehe but hey I'm only been realistic here. This is happening everyday. Some women would want to ask that if it were the other way round how would it look like. As in if it was the woman that got transferred and she meets a man who knowing fully well she's married still goes after her. Well me I nor know for that one Ooo, women can hold themselves more than men but personally I don't think its wise for couples to stay apart, temptations can come in different forms and when it does the end is usually not palatable. Cheers.