I came across this and I think it would be interesting to share.
Sometimes, it can be hard to tell what is going on in your woman's mind. You may be curious to know if she is enjoying her lovemaking with you or if she has experinced orgasm or not. There is no foolproof way of knowing if a woman has had an orgasm, even for the woman herself. The physical qualities of a woman's orgasms, and as a result her perception of them, is likely to change from orgasm to orgasm. There are times when she may not know whether she has actually had an orgasm, versus intense pleasure, which can at times be more enjoyable than an orgasm. If a woman has an orgasm that does not automatically mean she experienced pleasure, or at least intense pleasure. An orgasm can be boring! A woman's orgasm may produce so little physical sensation she may wonder if it was actually an orgasm.
You want to know if you are you getting it right Is she satisfied? Women can be hard to read, especially when it comes to sex. Although you could eventually find out, but sometimes, there is the need to be sure!
This is because her body will show some signs of arousal that she cannot possibly fake, but remember that every woman is different. Below are some of the signs that can give you the desired assurance:
Rapid breathing:Our breath when resting is a very peaceful and there is tranquil movement of air in and out of our lungs. When a woman is turned on, her breath comes in urgent puffs and, probably, some involuntary moans escape with it as the air is forced quickly past her vocal cords. The increase in heart rate when her body prepares for orgasm means her internal organs and muscles are demanding more oxygen. If you can hear her breath, you're on the right track. If you can feel her heart thumping, you're well on your way.
General writhing around and body movement:If your girl is curling her toes and writhing against you, chances are she's probably enjoying herself. Grinding and pushing against you means that she's really getting into the mood. If she's lying there limp, probably you are not getting to her. You could try a change of position, or start all over again; not because of her alone, but for both of you.
Thrusting hips:When she meets your thrusts, you're doing something right. It is pretty safe to say that if she's matching your body movements and is in tune with yours, then she's getting something out of it. Good sex is often synchronized. If she is not meeting your thrusts, then her sexual body language is telling you that she wants something else.
Arms splayed out:If she's holding herself close, she may not be getting you; her arms may be around you, her hands may be on your chest, above your head, wherever, except they're being held in close to her own body. If she's on top, she may need her arms to manoeuver and give herself some leverage to get the best angle. This is certainly not a definitive gesture, but can be useful. Her body should be responding to the situation at hand!
Vaginal muscle movement:The vaginal wall is an incredibly strong muscle, and she will probably use this to some extent for her own pleasure during sex. You may also feel the contracting and relaxing during orgasm her vagina spasms and this will clench you to some degree but not always, so don't use that as a benchmark. Some women do have great control, and those who do are likely to have better sex and orgasms in general. If you don't feel any clenching, don't panic.
You may know already by the feel of her vagina when she's not far away from orgasm she may let you enter further, or the overall sensation may be “just right” for you both. Only you can tell, so pay careful attention to her sexual body language and what's going on inside of her.
